Max taught me this and boy! what a gift mundane life is. Thank my love.
Jason McBride has a beautiful piece on this topic:
When the game is rigged, the only way to win is not to play.
If you want to live a life of contentment and happiness, you need to be brave enough to fully enjoy a mundane existence.
You have to live an audaciously mundane life.
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My grandparents left little in the way of an inheritance when they passed. They were never rich, but they were some of the happiest people I’ve ever met because they knew how to be happy with enough. They knew how to find the small joys in life.
They were extraordinarily ordinary.
None of them ever ran a marathon or took a trip around the world. My dad’s mom kept a beautiful flower garden, and my mom’s mother raised a variety of vegetables in her backyard.
My grandpas would take me for long drives around the Idaho countryside on hot summer afternoons, telling me stories about their lives and showing me where our people used to live.
When my grandparents weren’t entertaining grandchildren or on road trips staying with relatives, they played cards or dominoes with their neighbors and friends from church.
There were no cruises or sports cars.
For most of human existence, that was how we all lived. We worked, played, and then we died. Life used to be simple.
The truth is, it still can be. If you are willing to lower your expectations and open your eyes, you can lead a wonderful life just being ordinary. Instead of longing for a life you’ve seen on Instagram, you can go outside and watch the sunset where you live for free every night.
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From the outside, my life looks dull. I spend most of my day working on maintaining our home, raising children, and writing to pay the bills.
But in our home, there is always laughter. We have enough food to eat and live in one of the most beautiful places on the planet. Every day, I cook and clean — and every day I see something wonderful.
I may not ever be able to retire or visit all of the places in the world I long to see, but every day I draw breath, I can find contentment in my life and wonder in a world that is always changing, even as it rotates through the same four seasons each year.
It takes a certain kind of audacious courage to love living a mundane life. But if you’re brave enough to give up a life of endless striving and chasing hits of outrage, you can find peace and happiness in the ordinary.