Don't Regret Regret - New TED talk by Kathryn Schulz, author of one of my all time favorite book Being Wrong: Adventures in the Margin of Error.
"If we have goals and dreams and if we wanna do our best and if we love people and we don't want to hurt them or lose them, then we should feel pain when things go wrong. The point isn't to live without any regrets but point is that not to hate ourselves for having them.
We need to learn to love the flawed, imperfect things we create and to forgive ourselves for creating them. Regret doesn't remind us that we did badly but it reminds us that we can do better."
"If we have goals and dreams and if we wanna do our best and if we love people and we don't want to hurt them or lose them, then we should feel pain when things go wrong. The point isn't to live without any regrets but point is that not to hate ourselves for having them.
We need to learn to love the flawed, imperfect things we create and to forgive ourselves for creating them. Regret doesn't remind us that we did badly but it reminds us that we can do better."
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